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JEHOVA JIREH Stories- God Provides

1/16/2024

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Got several of these to add. They've built up over the years & I though I had shared. They need to be shared! Here goes:

Freddie's expired passport comes the DAY we leave for Spain!

So back in 2021 when we were all packed up, empty house, killing the last 4 days before flying to begin life in Spain we realized FREDDIE'S PASSPORT WAS EXPIRED!!! How did that slip us? We had looked everything over. Must've mistaken numbers or something.
So what do we do? Call the passport agency, do everything we can to get an emergency passport. Post-COVID, emergency passports were taking MINIMUM 3 weeks. So what to do? Someone had suggested to call our Congressman, so we did & got put on a list. They said they would call us when they got us an appointment. So Thursday goes by, no call. Friday goes by, no call. Saturday & Sunday go by, not open. Then MONDAY- the day we leave- arrives.
REWIND A MINUTE: We were worried, but over that weekend, GOD really spoke to that worry. He helped us realize, if Freddie can't fly & him & Sarah stay behind, its part of His plan & He's got this. We don't how or why, but He's got this. THIS recognition is key in ALL of these Jehova Jireh stories- having CONTENTMENT IN NOT GETTING YOUR WAY. It's GOD'S WAY & His way is better than our way. We realized that & were OK with whatever happened.
BACK TO THE PRESENT: So Monday morning rolls around & no call, so around 9:30 Freddie & I (Ace) head to the Petaluma DMV to get him an ID and hopefully maybe they'll let him fly with that. We pull into the DMV parking lot & I realize I left the paperwork at home, so we drive back to Santa Rosa, get the paper work and DRIVE BACK to Petaluma. As I'm taking the exit I get a phone call with an odd area code.
ITS THE CONGRESSMAN'S OFFICE & THEY GOT US AN APPOINTMENT! Same day appointment! So we turn around, go to Santa Rosa to pick up Sarah, Aurora & my mom who will drive the car back from SFO. There's not room for luggage so our good friend offers to drive it down for us later. We are able to go to the passport agency & Freddie has a brand new passport in his hands by 3:30pm!!! We later meet up with our friends at SFO who drop off our luggage, hugs goodbye to them & my mom & our flight to Spain takes off at 8pm. WHAT A CRAZY DAY.

It was a crazy day, but it shows GOD can show up when it matters. He calls us to faith. Faith that His way is better. We put our security in planning & preparation, but we should put it in Him. When we fear a future outcome we don't want we need NOT fear because if that's the way GOD has it planned out, it WILL be for the best. Sometimes he wants us to learn that before He works everything out at the last minute. TRUST GOD 100% ALWAYS, EVEN WHEN IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE IMMEDIATELY

Grandma's Passing & Emergency Return to the U.S.

We returned Stateside toward the end of Summer 2023 for Home Assignment. It was a blessed time to spend with family family, church family, see old friends, make new friends & have some light vacation time. We returned to Spain, expecting to possibly have to return within the year if Ace's grandmother's health took a dive, but nobody was expecting her to pass away so soon & suddenly.
We were in Spain for about 5 weeks until we came back Stateside again. We HAD to, we knew it was God's will- sometimes His will is for us to stay put and endure, but we KNEW because of some things that had gone on when we were there last that it was NOT His will for us to stay put, but to come back and spend some more time Stateside. 
FLIGHTS TO THE US ARE EXPENSIVE FROM SPAIN! Where would the money come from? We didn't know, but knew what had to be done. So we got the tickets & put "the ask" out there if the many out there could step up & help us cover these- AND GOD'S PEOPLE DID!!
IT'S NOT EASY FOR US TO ASK
 even though it's something we were taught in our missionary training. God provides for HIS WORK, He chooses workers & the workers go find the relationships that support God's calling. Even understanding that it sometimes is hard to ask when younger generations seem increasingly less inclined to supporting missions.
BUT GOD DELIVERED THROUGH SO MANY OF YOU! And more than just finances, that filled out hearts with LOVE. You see, God knew we not only needed the "simple" matter of finances for the trip, but in the hurt of losing our Grandma Margie, God knew we needed to FEEL LOVED & NOT ALONE. God renewed what we understood about support & asking, the BEAUTY of the RELATIONSHIP. The whole ordeal has brought so much PEACE to so many aspects of life. 
WE MISS GRANDMA MARGIE DEEPLY, but we know she was & is glad that GOD can be glorified through all of this, that her absence leads to new chapters and opportunities for growth. Her faithfulness & longsuffering love is a testament to us of a faithful servant loving others- even when it wasn't easy- JUST as God loves us, when we aren't being very lovable towards Him.
THE AMOUNTH OF OUTPOURING CONFIRMED IT WAS HIS WILL- Sometimes we have to take a leap of faith. Sometimes people will question if it's really God's will or we are pushing our will. We believe the FRUIT is the proof. Were it not His will, maybe we would've canceled the flights had the funds not come in. The extra 2.5 months stateside were a very needed extension to what God had began when we were there a month previously.

JEHOVA JIREH'ED AGAIN!
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UPDATE GAP- BUT NOT ACTIVITY GAP!

1/16/2024

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So its been 2 years since my last blog post!! Why? Well, with a combination of sending out regular news letters, posts on Facebook & just a lot of actual 'boots on the ground work', the website BLOG just felt unnecessary. The website here informs of who we are and overviews of the work we do. I don't believe it gets as much traffic as our facebook pages or read as much as the newsletters, so whats the point?

But hey, if there IS a point, would you let us know in the Comments?
Regardless if anyone reads these or not, could be a good place to curate my lessons. 

Much love & many blessings to everyone
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It's ALL about Jesus

1/26/2022

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As I was updating our page recently from "heading to Spain" to "serving in Spain" (Jehova Jireh!!!) I also updated "THE WORK" section since the Lord has opened up quite a thriving homeless ministry. As I was writing the descriptions I noticed each paragraph finished in a single word, all aligned with each other- as in, one paragraph is not longer than the other.... and the word is JESUS.

"Wow, that's interesting" I thought, because the end goal of everything is to reflect Jesus, to share Jesus, the thrive in Jesus!! Jesus is the end, but He's also the BEGINNING. God is the Alpha & the Omega, but Jesus IS God, so He too is the Alpha & Omega.

OUR REAL LIFE DOESN'T EVEN BEGIN UNTIL WE KNOW JESUS

Jesus is the Alpha of our life. For 1, He is our leader- like the Alpha wolf, who gives us guidance and instruction to survive & thrive while we are on this earth. We learn from His wisdom in His Word. We can spend our whole life seaching for fulfillment and it always be out of reach or we might just perpetually need "the next level" but when we find Jesus he becomes the BEGINNING (Alpha) of our REAL life- the ULTIMATE satisfaction. 

WE REACH THE REAL FINISH LINE WHEN WE KNOW JESUS

At the same time that Jesus is the Alpha of our life at the same time, when we come to Him, He also becomes the OMEGA, the end of our life. If our life here is to know & serve Jesus, when we come to accept Him we have already reached the goal of this life, the end, the Omega in that aspect. But a whole new aspect (Alpha) opens up in the Great Commission of serving Him, although that comes from love. It doesn't earn us a "better" salvation or more religious points. And when we reach the end of this mortal life HE becomes our Omega as in we dwell with HIM & The Father eternally.

ALL OF CREATION WAS MADE FOR JESUS- SATAN DIDN'T "RUIN" GOD'S PLAN.

No one can "fool" the creator. God always knew He would be sending Jesus when He did. Jesus is and was "in the beginning" as well (John 1:1). When we see the continuity of creation and history we can recognize this clearly. From the second God began creating all of this, the purpose was for Jesus to demonstrate His (God's) glory by the redemption of the weak mortals.

Of course, we can't stand being weak mortals & want to be God's in our own rights, but our foolish, finite minds could never handle what being God entails. We should be able to take solace that God is sovreign and cares for us. But Satan easily preys on our pride and we seek SOOOOO HARD to find validation for ourselves of our own making. WE DON'T EVEN GIVE JESUS A CHANCE!! 

THATS WHY OUR PARAGRAPHS END WITH JESUS- BECAUSE HE IS THE REAL BEGINNING OF LIFE!

GIVE JESUS A CHANCE- YOU CAN'T SAY IT'S NOT REAL IF YOU DON'T TRY IT.

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Transcendent HOPE in the WORST- so much great news

12/27/2021

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A very recent update since we started writing this is that Ace's aunt's mother passed away at the beginning of Christmas week and his cousin's wife on Christmas eve which led this to be a VERY different Christmas for a lot of people. No one expected to be visiting the cemetary on Christmas Eve & Christmas to mourn this abrupt loss. She had been battling cancer but seemed to be making really good progress in recovery. She was 43, her children 9, 18 & 20. This is going to be a very difficult and possibly unpleasant holiday for many people moving forward. WE pray God will Romans 8:28 the situation, He can do any incredible thing. We pray that with this happneing ESPECIALLY at Christmas the HOPE of eternal peace in CHRIST ALONE will transcend the pain & grief we feel on earth. To paraphrase John 3:16- God LOVES US so much, He sent Jesus to be the perfect sacrifice- to pay the price for our imperfection-  so we can join Him ETERNALLY- IF WE BELIEVE.  All we have to do is believe in Jesus & ask Him to forgive us. No rituals, no right amount of stand ups or sit downs, no amount of repetitive prayers, Ephesians 2:8,9... THAT'S GREAT NEWS that transcends the worst news! I know if I lose my Sarah or Aurora or Freddie that they will be forever with Jesus in the next. I will miss them, but there is no question where they'll be. I don't have to lob the right amount of prayers skyward & hope I can "get them into heaven", thats not in the Bible, John 3:16-20 was spoken BY JESUS, not some other person. Instruction straight from the source.

KNOW THE BIBLE- not man's religious propaganda (Ps. 119:11)

Psalm 119:11 says "I have hidden your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you." But lets not forget this isn't ONLY talking about knowing rules so I do the right thing. David, more profoundly speaking, is talking about KNOWING GOD from His revealed word. Its keeps us safe, it gives us peace & confidence when we know WHAT THE TRUTH IS & how that secures us. Look down just a couple verses from verse 13-16 he talks about HOW GREAT knowing & following God's word is. The JOY it brings.

Joy from following rules- NOT JUST- Joy from knowing what GOD SAYS ABOUT HIMSELF TOO- LOOK....

Look at this and think.... in Psalm 119:16 David says "I delight in your decrees; I will not neglect your word.".... what does that mean, more rules? NO, God makes decrees, statements, promises... and in doing so tells us of HIS characteristics.

So if I hid HIS WORD in my heart, I would also know Jeremiah 29:12 & 13.... what does that say?

Jer. 29:12 & 13 says "Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." If I knew my Bible & hid The Word in my heart I would know that God WILL be with me in the good & hard times, when I seek with with ALL my heart. That means legitimately. That means He isn't a magic genie that's there for me to casually demand favor from when I pray- that's not ALL MY HEART.
There is much more that HIS WORD says about His character and promises that gives me TRANSCENDENT HOPE IN TRAGEDY, but it all revolves around really loving Jesus more than ourselves. That doesn't mean we aren't going to act selfishly from time to time, but we don't treat Jesus or "religion" as our good luck charm to make things go good for us. That shows US focus & NOT Jesus focus. That is exactly what God IS NOT interested in according to Jer. 29:12-13

Romans 8:28 assures us things work for our utlimate good- BUT only for those that follow HIM. 

Rom. 8:28 "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." Who love HIM. So aligning with the previous paragraph- if we practice religion we are demonstrating more of a love of ourselves and our own well-being. Another reason those that LOVE God & Jesus first can have TRANSCENDANT PEACE is because we know where our eternal security lies. We're not that concerned that we don't receive healing in this life, or if a loved one is taken early, because if they LOVED Jesus, we KNOW where they are! its secure, guaranteed- Ephesians 2:8-9 "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God--  not by works, so that no one can boast." The opposite side of that fence means that for those who DID NOT love or follow Jesus & did it more for their own interest DO NOT HAVE HOPE- that IS tragic! THERE IS HOPE FOR ALL IN JESUS & ONLY JESUS- there's nothing in the Bible that says you will have hope if you love anything else more.

​God reiterates He's NOT a "good luck charm" interested in religious tasks of show... HE WANTS OUR HEARTS- Thats great news!!!!

Because who of us can do ALL the religious tasks right all the time? God gives us GRACE & MERCY THROUGH JESUS, if we LOVE HIM. But WE have to make that decision that we actually LOVE HIM and accept Him BECAUSE WE BELIEVE HIM. That doesn't give us persmission to live any which way we want, but it does give us grace because we KNOW Jesus paid the price for our failures and that... 

no amount of chanting or water spraying will get us right with God.
​Its a simple act of the heart. 



THAT IS TRANSCENDENT HOPE

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JEHOVA JIREH Stories- God Provides

7/2/2021

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A MISSIONARY'S SUPPORT IS A MIRACLE

Well there are lots of missionaries out there, so is it really? What you don't see on the outside is all the painstaking work that goes into support raising by so many missionaries out there for little results. BUT ITS WORTH IT! You witness God work in incredible, human wisdom-defying ways!
Missionaries are given coaching & training in understanding support raising and how to do it well, but the reality is THERE IS NO FORMULA.
Some people are blessed with massive church financing, God has provided for us very grass-roots, with a couple suportive "churches" but 80% of our support comes from THE CHURCH- the people of God.

The MIRACLE here is the steady growth. Like a river carving a valley

Over the last couple years God has led us to MANY people- Many of you!- and surely and steadily provided results, its amazing! I would not say it was slow now in retrospect. In the moment there were times when we felt we weren't seeing progress and growth, but THERE WAS- just not as we expected- AND God would also pepper in miraculous contributions from unexpected sources that would also defy OUR understanding of progress. We thought we would have a poor month of progress & GOD would deliver- like WHAT?! How can that be?! These are the incredible things our God does. His proven faithfulness helped make our transition to part time work and then eventually living on support and easier decision to make. We were seing His fruit, we knew He was IN the situation. 
So here we are after 2 years from the beginning of the call to missions with the opportunity to finally begin ministry because of ALL OF YOU THAT HE PROVIDED! We didn't have huge leaps and bounds in our support raising, but steady, easy going, bit by bit growth that in retrospect we can see incredible provision in.
A missionary can follow all the instructions and recommended practices to the "T" and end up with nothing. The problem, is because the focus is on our efforts rather than 
THE PROVIDER- God will do as He pleases regardless of our efforts, and the reason why is because

PEOPLE WHO SUPPORT MISSIONARIES ARE A FAMILY

Just as God loves us as our FATHER so does He want His people to operate as a FAMILY with each others best MUTUAL interests & well being at hand, not just cash cows. We've seen & heard of the most fully funded missionaries leaving the field from burnout or going off the rails into sin because they didn't have relationships & spiritual support. Money helps make things happen, SO DOES GOD. Lets not forget our first priority of prayer and communion under HIM.  Matt. 18:19,20 says “Again, truly I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.”

We've seen God lead us to fruitful relationships from no effort of our own- complete miracles.

We've followed the "formulas" and put A LOT of effort in to see none or minimal results, but ALL of our partners have been incredible blessings from GOD, and nearly all have come in unexpected ways we could never have fathomed, but we also recognize WHY God did this: He wanted to open our HEARTS in communion with others for HIS glory. Like Prov. 30:8-8 says "Keep falsehood and deceitful words far from me. Give me neither poverty nor riches; feed me with the bread that is my portion. Otherwise, I may have too much and deny You, saying, ‘Who is the LORD?’". He does things miraculously in these ways so we depend on HIM. He shows His faithfulness to us through so many supporters that we had no idea would be PARTNERS in ministry with us, and people who we though WOULD support us don't.

We're so grateful & humbled by our "ministry family"- TOGETHER we heed the direction of our Lord to share the Gospel as He leads us to.

We also have confidence in God's provision and leadership in this transition period juggling finding an apartment, to travel health tests, co-ordinating the shipping of things. 

HE HAS NEVER LET US DOWN & HE WON'T START NOW

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JEHOVA JIREH Stories- God Provides

6/30/2021

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Its about time this post got started. Too many awesome stories to keep quiet. This thread is just to share some of the ways God has moved & guided us in our lives and shown up in ways that could only be Him. Some of them are small things, but they show His consistent message to us. I'm going to start with a couple silly CAR stories.

God provides us with our Nissan Titan & later our Nissan Rogue

Like I said, silly because they are with CARS, but the IMPORTANT THING IS THE LESSON here. Check it out.
Back in Early 2004 the Nissan Titan was released and I (Ace) fell in love with it. I wanted one so bad and figured if I could get one at $X per month and insurance under $X I would do it! Well I pursued it and pursued it and it was out of my range. I came up with all kinds of clever ways to try and leverage things, but nothing happened. So I came to the conclusion "OK GOD, you're not opening the door here. You're showing me this isn't for me. I don't need this to add to my status. Ok, I can be content with what I do have, THANK YOU for the great reliable vehicle you HAVE provided me with!" It was very shortly after that He happened to lead me by an advertisement advertising the Titan right at the price point I had previously fought to get. The EXACT price & insurance cost I had arbitrarily determined before- HE PROVIDED! He only met the request AFTER I recognized I didn't NEED this Titan for happiness and that what He had provided was sufficient. The Titan WAS a blessing, it fit our growing family better and was usefull in the business I had started at the time. It ended up being a much needed vehicle for our family that I hadn't forseen when I wanted it just because it was big cool truck.
Later with the Rogue we went through a similar process. We had a good new, fuel efficient car, but "needed" something bigger to carry the kids and their friends around. Once again I (Ace) tried to leverage and strategize how get the Rogue package we needed at the price we wanted without compromising, after months with no results we recognized this as another contentment opportunity: "OK GOD, you gave a great sporty, fuel efficient, reliable car here. We can be content with that. Maybe we dont need to shuttle a bunch of kids around. We that you for blessing us with this Veloster." It wasn't until 2 weeks of giving up the Rogue search that Nissan of SF sent me an email with the EXACT Rogue we were looking for at the EXACT price we needed in the EXACT color Sarah wanted! Incredible! That Rogue is now going with us to Spain to help share the Gospel in the way God has built us for.

Skeptics could chalk that up to co-incidence. But co-incidence doesn't happen over and over....

Those are only 2 instances of God providing after us having to LEARN TO BE CONTENT- there are many more. Co-incidences don't happen like clockwork, if you are in denial so badly you try to write this off as coincidence you are going to keep living quite a miserable life thinking your desires are all that matter and you are always the victim for not getting your way. We've lived both sides of the coin, and when you "die to self" as the Bible says, then your eyes are REALLY opening to receiving WISDOM & RECOGNIZING TRUTH! JEHOVA JIREH!
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​‘Let the wise listen and add to their learning.’ Proverbs 1:5 NIV

10/17/2020

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Recently I received this devotion in my email. I LOVED IT because I understand it to be so true because I have EXPERIENCED what it is talking about. I Also love it because it's like it ripped out of the pages of THE GENESIS PROCESS which is one of my recovery curriculums. I know I'm tying everything back to recovery in most of these Blogs so far, but I can't help it. I LOVE IT, it made the difference in my life. Recovery helped me understand God and Jesus for who they ACTUALLY are rather than a particular church culture, or country culture or personal bent/bias says they should be. The beautiful thing about knowing & desiring God, is that as a person ALIGNS themselves with God you will find yourself UN-ALIGNING with many cultural aspects, recognizing the error of your own bents/biases and willing changing them because God is so much more fulfilling.

​So here's the rest of the Devotion (devotion text will be black, my comments red): In order to keep growing, you must understand three principles:

(1) You grow to the extent you give. ​

Immediately I fell in love with this devo, because this "Key Thought" is ALL OVER 'The Genesis Process' (first appears on Pg. 27 of Change Group workbook- "If you don't give, you don't grow")...
By giving out, you create more room to grow on the inside. So, GIVE UNTIL IT HURTS, and KEEP GIVING until it feels good. Always endeavor to leave people better off than you found them, and you’ll be better off too. Solomon said, 
‘The liberal man shall be rich! By watering others, he waters himself.’ (Proverbs 11:25 TLB) This epitaph on a tombstone says it all: ‘What I gave, I have. What I spent, I had. What I kept, I lost.’

More of why I love this is because ITS 100% TRUE... in recovery we receive a lot at first, but we give our time and effort and IT HURTS! You don't immediately feel better when you look at trauma and what a terrible person you are, but through the process we learn we are not terrible people. We are forgiven and accepted by Christ and He has given us all a different portion with which to GLORIFY HIS NAME! As we experience sobriety, freedom & redemption we then GIVE BACK to help others along the same journey- iron sharpening iron... "RECOVERY" in the purest sense of the word is not "behavior modification" but an extremely Biblical principal. We are ALL recovering from our fallen world.

(2) To accomplish more, you’ve got to grow more.

Do you feel stuck spiritually, relationally, career-wise, or at home? You won’t get unstuck by making external changes, like pursuing a new career, leaving your family, or changing churches. Nobody’s keeping you down but yourself. The lid on your life is—you. So, if you’re serious about getting unstuck, instead of looking for quick fixes take a long hard look at yourself, accept responsibility for what you see, pray, and decide to do something about it.

This is the FIRST "key though" of The Genesis Process right in Process 1, pg. 19 "You can only be successful at working on problems you OWN." The topic of Process 1 is 'Spiritual Stagnation'. Right away first thing we observe is we are not modifying behavior to change the heart, but we are looking at THE HEART to change our behaviors/attitudes. You will NEVER conquer addiction or attitudes by changing actions. In Session 2 of "Sexual Integrity 101" they plainly lay out "Grace flips CHANGE upside down as new behavior comes from a new Identity." 

(3) It’s not enough to dream; you must do.

The Tartar tribes of Central Asia are reputed to have used a particular curse against their enemies. They didn’t call for their swords to rust or their people to die of disease. They simply said, ‘May you stay in one place forever.’ If you don’t work daily to improve yourself, that will be your fate too. You’ll end up stuck in the same place, doing the same things, dreaming the same dreams, and never getting anywhere. So, keep growing! – from the Word for You Today

Of course there is work to do, it doesn't just organically bleed out- lets not forget the 2nd half of Philippians 2:12- 'WORK OUT your salvation with fear and trembling.' (emphasis added). Freedom from stagnation comes from embracing the Gospel, our acceptance by God through Jesus & receiving that love. Our identity in that love then MOTIVATES the ACTION of life long change! 

Closing comments from Pastor Todd

The challenge of this devotion is for us to not be satisfied with where we are spiritually.  The amount of time that we spend in God's Word and the time and energy that we give to our Savior needs to be continually growing. Ask yourself, "Over the past year have I grown spiritually, or have I reached a comfortable plateau where I am satisfied with where I am spiritually and with the time and energy that I am giving to my Savior?"  Reaching a plateau of self-satisfaction in your everyday life may be rewarding, but spiritually it can be a disaster.  If you are living on a spiritual plateau, your motivation to get off the plateau and to climb to the next level will come from spending more time in God's Word, and asking God in prayer to give you the desire to climb to the next level.

Invitation to restoration

If you feel some of this stagnation or have just felt "off", or overwhelmed, just NOT PEACEFUL in these days and reading this makes sense, I would invite you to join us for a look at THE GENESIS PROCESS. Just LOOK at it first, don't be afraid, you won't be labeled as a crazy addict. I went the TGP after being sober for a couple years already and it changed MY life, I love to share it just like the FIRST PRINCIPAL listed in this blog! 

LET'S GLORIFY THE NAME OF THE LORD TOGETHER WITH OUR LIVES!
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COMMUNITY Health Evangelism (CHE): RELATIONSHIPS make the difference

10/16/2020

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We recently took a Community Health Evangelism course that was SO ENCOURAGING & AFFIRMING! It was so awesome get what was taught but very affirming that OUR OWN ministry is a CHE program before we even knew what CHE was.
The course was basically 32 hours over 4 days, I'm going to try to sum up a bit of that in this blog.

"And if I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing." 1 Cor. 13:2

The absence of the relationship & modelling is just condescension. How can I tell someone how to get their life straight if I am not doing the same thing? This is one of the KEY elements of CHE. So often in missions- as evangelists- we think we see a problem in a community that we can help with, that will help them. But then we become the outsider TELLING someone else what is wrong with them. Even if our intentions are out of love we HAVE to consider the others' own awareness of it and how can we more graciously guide them to that recognition.

Jesus- the ultimate evangelist- did this exact thing! He related to the woman at the well & had compassion and respect for Zacchaeus BEFORE throwing out the systematic theology of salvation. Throwing doctrine & theology isn't what changes people, RELATIONSHIP changes people.

And if its RELATIONSHIPS that change people, they must have a RELATIONSHIP WITH JESUS

"But in order to have a relationship with Jesus we have to teach doctrine & theology"- Back to last paragraph, DID JESUS DO THAT? Or did He foster kinship? Within kinship, MODELING & INTEGRITY then leads to an openness of listening. 
After Jesus demonstrated that kinship & love for the woman at the well & Zacchaeus, weren't they more open to hearing what He had to say? We know the woman was, but we see Zacchaeus interested before hand. Surely we can understand when Zacchaeus RECEIVED that love back from the person He was so enthralled with it rampantly opened his heart up to receive what Jesus had to give. 

RELATIONSHIPS lead to the teaching

These are the proven principles in Community Health Evangelism. You build a relationship to meet THEIR NEED- NOT what YOU think they need, but what THEY identify as a need. 
Now you can pose questions or guidance that may help them realize what your perceived need is if they don't perceive it, but that's not the main goal. The goal is to involve the community or individuals in OWNING their edification.

If one doesn't own their situation, EVANGELISM WON'T STICK

Have you ever been given some instructions, or been micro-managed to do a task, and then down road been faced with the task but didn't know how to do it? Its because you weren't given a chance or chose not to own it, in order to just get through the task.
Much is the same in evangelism. Many of us are familiar with the book "WHEN HELPING HURTS" by Brian Fikkert & Steve Corbett and we all nod our heads, but this has been the VAST approach in evangelism for so long and sadly the same approach in my own Christian walk for so long. I went to church, I knew the Bible, I had faith, but it was so stagnant because ALL of that still revolved around me. I was told all these principles to be a good Christian by other people rather than led to WHY & the heart behind it as Jesus says in a couple of my favorite verses of all time in Matthew 15:11-20

" it is not what goes into the mouth that defiles a person, but what comes out of the mouth; this defiles a person.....  But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and this defiles a person...."

When we primarily evangelize with doctrine & theology we tend to make it about head knowledge and less heart knowledge. I KNEW A LOT in my head growing up, but not in my heart.
When we do that we are either 1) Replacing one set of legalist religious practices with another set of legal practices or 2) Selling them a set of practices that look like they will bring the material blessing of these 1st world missionaries that have it all together.
The problem with that is when the missionaries leave and people start having problems again, they think this theology & doctrine didn't solve their problem and they go back to the old ways. Its because THE HEART WASN'T CHANGED.

A lot went into the ears (mouth) but not a lot went into the HEART

When OWNERSHIP is taken- the HEART changes

And THIS is the whole point of CHE- CHANGING THE HEART by OWNING your condition, which eventually leads to breaking denial & OWNING your condition of sin & what to do about it.
This is one of the things I LOVE about recovery & why it is my ministry: I was TOLD a lot growing up, but never given ownership. If I had a problem, leaders would TELL me what to do. They didn't evaluate what would make the most internal impact on me, pretty much cause & effect- and that advice could even be DIFFERENT from person to person, so who to listen to??
But it wasn't until I was sooo broken & no one's advice was working that I HAD to take ownership of my relationship with Jesus. Recovery programs helped me see where I was OUT OF ALIGNMENT with Jesus & what I had to do about it. It didn't TELL ME what to do- It HELPED ME REALIZE what was wrong.

Recovery isn't behavior modification, its HEART CHANGE. Behavioral change is a natural result of HEART CHANGE

Recovery was the vessel that helped me OWN my faith because I finally understood HOW I aligned with God & Jesus. That led to a deeper OWNERSHIP of UNDERSTANDING His love for me.
It led to a NATURAL DESIRE to change behavior
It led to a STRENGTH TO MAINTAIN that new behavior- of course there are still struggles in temptation, but the heart behind sobriety is different. Instead of white knuckling under my own strength I have a greater love of God & Jesus then the temptation that helps punch through that and through groups God has given me that "way out" in the form of brothers that support each other in the battle!

This is COMMUNITY. Restoring individuals & families is HEALTH. Doing it only through the love of Jesus is EVANGELISM



I LOVE CHE & I love recovery- this is not a ministry plug, but a PASSION because of the results I've experienced but also seen in others! Lots of exclamation marks. I love it so much because Jesus loved US- the rejects- in this way, I love to love other rejects in the same way!

if you are in an addiction & want out, PLEASE CONTACT ME

if you're not an addict but feeling so overwhelmed or stagnant PLEASE CONTACT US!

LETS DO THIS THING CALLED LIFE TOGETHER

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The Bible is the 1st RECOVERY MANUAL & Jesus the ultimate COUNSELOR

8/18/2020

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I enjoyed a sweet study covering multiple Psalms. Seems like often Christian culture tries to deny reality of trauma and pushes the "positive & encouraging" stuff to "just get over it." Notice how there is a lot of lament in the Bible? So many of the major and minor prophets AND there are more lament Psalms than other genres of Psalms. Man, I love it though! God is real and understands our pain! It totally reinforces how we draw close to Jesus through RECOVERY too. I grew up active in the church with all the "knowledge of God", but NOTHING changed my life like REALLY GETTING TO KNOW HIM & EXPERIENCE HIM through my recovery.

Recovery IS NOT simply behavior modification- but SOUL REPAIR.

King David & the Apostle Paul cried out in lament of their sin, were they not Christians because they KEPT sinning? Of course they were, and they both TOOK STEPS to either make amends or daily seek restoration from those sins/wounds. Yet so many of us in the church think those things will just work themselves out by listening to more sermons and podcasts while avoiding the real work.
David explains in several Psalms, but I'll highlight 103 & 42 where in both of these he talks about needing to REMEMBER daily- isn't that so true? We say we have Jesus & peace yet immediately lash out when things don't go our way, or we fear for our things, status, goals, dreams, because we don't REMEMBER!

We haven't really INTEGRATED our faith into us.

How do we integrate? Philippians 2:12 says By "WORKING out your salvation with fear and trembling." There is MORE to sanctification than showing up to church, listening to sermons and Bible Study. HOW ARE YOU PRACTICING? There is real work, man, and it brings FEAR AND TREMBLING!
How are you to overcome the fear and trembling if you don't face them? Sure Jesus can "take them away" but do you think He wants to leave you soft and unskilled? He DEVELOPS our character and STRENGTHENS OUR FAITH by facing the hurt and WORKING THEM OUT with Him!
So what do we do? Do we read and do more church stuff? Does that really let the Holy Spirit dig deep down or just putting more disconnected knowledge in our head? Maybe we don't know, RECOVERY TAKES US THROUGH THAT PROCESS!

We might "know" the goodness of God intellectually but it IS an abstract thought. How could humans possibly comprehend an infinite God? Those Psalms also talk about EXPERIENCING God's goodness. 

WE WILL KEEP FORGETTING UNTIL WE EXPERIENCE GOD.

I mean I certainly know I can attest to that. I grew up with a TON of Bible knowledge. I apologetics & hermeneutics with the best of them, but it didn't mean anything because I kept ignorantly pursuing my own lofty goals, living an unsatisfactory life in the world. I KNEW a lot, but I hadn't EXPERIENCED God because I was running from Him.
In Psalms 103 & 42, David's soul is pleading to EXPERIENCE God, not to read more books and commentaries on Him. Its just like how we know it's not RULES that change people, but RELATIONSHIPS. God wants us to experience the RELATIONSHIP with Him, not just study more.
David was PLEADING for God to draw near to Him so he could EXPERIENCE God's warmth, love and comfort. He did that by renewing his mind- as the apostle Paul tells us about in Eph. 4:22-24.... I know you probably though I was going Romans 12:2 with that, but the Ephesians passage is what is reflected here.

The beauty of Old AND New Testament working together

This is where we see Truth & edification. We started with a commentary on Psalms with an immediate comparison between David & Paul, and continued to support the statements with extrapolations from the Psalms AND letters of Paul

RECOVERY isn't contrary to the Bible, IT IS the Bible. We are born into sin, suffered in a sinful world and come to the knowledge of God. Recovery is the natural process of "getting better from the world." Essentially, how we "recover" from being born into this broken world. But "recovery" isn't a trendy word in Christian circles, since we like to hyper-spiritualize things we will call it "SANCTIFICATION" and try to ignore the practical daily, physical aspect of WORKING OUT OUR SALVATION.
Let's not forget Jesus came to earth FULLY GOD & FULLY MAN- FULLY SPIRITUAL, FULLY PHYSICAL.

We really only find freedom in JESUS- He Recovers us

There is psycho-babble and there is non-psycho-babble, just like there is "spiritual-babble". The way you differentiate is either one lumps everything into an end of the spectrum. EVERYTHING is psychological or EVERYTHING is spiritual.

But what we can see from both David & Paul's own words is how they are sharing with us to not fall into either one of those camps! JESUS HIMSELF even pointed to reconciling- Matthew 5:23
That could be awkward and uncomfortable, but it grows YOU regardless of how your brother responds. He doesn't say "Just forgive him in your heart and pray for your brother silently."- NO HE WANTS YOU TO "DO WORK SON!"
You don't get the cop-out and free pass of avoiding pain, awkwardness or a rebuke! It's also not about all our own work, Jesus gave us the instruction, He gives us the courage & He'll give us the power when we pray and ask Him to lead us THROUGH the WORK of our HEALING! That's the point of reconciling:

FACE THE PAIN OF SIN HEAD ON & CONQUER IT SO THE GLORY OF POWER OVER ADVERSITY MAY BE GIVEN TO GOD!

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I can't believe a loving God would allow PAIN & TRAGEDY... Really? Are you sure?

4/6/2020

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- by Ace

There is really nothing new in this blog. So many greater minds have really put this line to rest, yet it still persists. Is it really "hard" to believe or is it a form of denial. Whether your intrigued or defiant just give a read and consider....

PAIN is the indicator of where WE are broken.

There are definitely things that can cause us to challenge how can there be a loving God if we have been abused by the church, by others, by terrible circumstances, how could God let this happen? But maybe that's NOT the question to ask, but rather, WHY do these things bother me? Why do I feel trespassed against? Why do I feel indignation about this? Some times it might not be anything that happened to you but a tragedy you witness happen to others, but the question still persists- Why did someone else's circumstance make YOU feel that way? It didn't happen to you, so you can have empathy, but why do YOU feel offended at that? Why would I feel that way? Why do I think I have a right to complete happiness in the way I want it???
Aren't those some weird questions to ask? Where in the cosmos is it written that everyone should be happy and not have any problems? When we ask these questions and look at what the Bible shows us

its BECAUSE there is a Loving God that He makes Himself available to you in the midst of those tragedies.

He doesn't abandon us. If you feel abandoned, its because you've abandoned Him. In the Psalms David cries out that he's been so caught up in worldly problems he feels like God's left him but he affirms God's presence in his trials by remembering how God had delivered him countless other times.
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Tragedies are not "doled out" by a sadistic God, but from our own sin in our own world.

So if we want to debate about a loving God, you can't deny the other aspects of the faith. To objectively ask that question of loving God's existence we have to acknowledge the whole picture of our own human sin, fall & Satan- but so often those aspects get "conveniently" ignored because if not, we wouldn't be able to blame God. And because we chose to listen to Satan's influence, we allowed sin, tragedies and torment to enter God's perfect world.

A loving God allows things to happen because He gave us free will to choose.

and unfortunately that leads a lot of people to make a lot of poor decisions that affect other people, possibly such as yourselves. I am a sinful person as well, I have made many decisions over my life that have affected people very negatively, BUT ALSO, through those, we have found tremendous restoration with Christ together because we ran to Him in those circumstances. We didn't stew and let a poor decision dictate what shade of glasses we were going to look at the rest of life through, but rather as mentioned above, God made himself available in those situations and made us stronger, more faithful people that before. Still & never perfect, but that's another thing He shows us, is how even when redeemed we still make bad decisions when we take our eyes off him and try to do life on our own terms again. He shows us how we constantly need Him in all aspects of our lives, and THAT is actually REALLY FREEING! How do you ask? Because those things don't control you, they don't concern you. Our future & home is not on this earth, we're just passing by.

A loving God doesn't blindside you with it, He warns and encourages you.

Jesus himself said in John 16:33 "I have told you these things SO YOU MAY HAVE PEACE.  In this world you WILL have trouble, but be of good cheer for I have overcome the world." He didn't leave it a secret, that in and of itself is one of the biggest proofs that YOU DO have a loving God. He doesn't sugar coat and tell you that everything is going to be rainbows and bubble gum unicorn farts every day, and you will get a ton of money and success and get everything you want. No- He's straight up. There WILL be troubles, tribulations, suffering, disasters. This was not God's original design for this world and because of that He sent His Son to OVERCOME THE CIRCUMSTANCE.

You were not created to base you life on circumstances.

That sounds good in today's "take charge" society right? But that one thing is actually true. And Jesus is conveying that message in John 16:33 when he says He has OVERCOME the world. The world doesn't control you, it doesn't own you. It will if you let it, if you deny Jesus and His rescue of you from the circumstance of tragedy and victimization. Jesus came and died to pay the blood debt that OUR first trespass against God created. Knowing that we were still going to make bad decisions He WILLINGLY paid that price to restore that bond, so we would've have to keep living in the past, basing our life/mood/views on circumstance, but to JOIN CHRIST IN OVERCOMING.

Easy for me to say right?

NOPE! I can only say this and confirm its true because I have LIVED IT & EXPERIENCED IT! Lets look at that statement- "I've lived it" isn't coming as a high horse, super-Christian saying I have always followed God's path. Far from it, I wasted most of my life pursing my own dreams and aspirations treating God as an accessory rather than the main reason for life. I let circumstances embitter me, I held resentments, wanted to run from problems and medicate my own inadequacy in destructive ways. 
God got my attention when I realized I had broken my family and there was NOTHING I could do to make it better. I had to accept the consequences of my choices and reconcile with God first- not my wife or anyone else- I had been doing that to no avail, but GOD had to be FIRST. There was no guarantee of reconciliation in our marriage, I accepted whatever God's fate was a good part of His plan & long story short, He DID grant us restoration. Here we are now, better than ever, but it was a long hard road out of hell.
That is the proof beyond a shadow of a doubt, God is real, He is faithful, we experience pain because of our fallen world, not because God is a sadist- but what pain Satan means for evil, God uses for good. Dr. Ted Roberts communicates to us in Pure Desire that what hell tried to use to bring you down, is the exact thing God will use through you to conquer it! 
Its like going through a video game and leveling up your character. You don't get a stronger character from running around in fields and sight seeing. You gain strength and buffs through conflict and challenges. Those challenges make you a stronger character so you can defend those weaker non-player characters in the game you're supposed to. Yea, a video game, kind of cheesy, but it makes sense doesn't it?

(If you thought that video game analogy was cool just wait until I drop a Matrix comparison in the future! LOL)
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